Maybe just tell him the truth? :) "It's so that I don't disturb you with loud noise all the time, and so that you also don't wreck my recordings. If we don't do it this way, then the noise will be really bad in your room." Maybe that would convince him? Especially if you tell him that you will re-finish the wall when you leave.The problem is more to explain the owner of the bulding why i have to do this.
That will help, but only a little tiny bit, because your wall will not be decoupled: "Decoupled" means that the two sides of the wall are not connected at all, especially by studs, for example. Two separate walls, basically. If you just add mass (without decoupling), then sound (vibration) will still travel through the studs from one side of the wall to the other. Sound makes the gypsum board on one side vibrate, that makes the studs vibrate, and they make the gypsum board on the other side vibrate. So more mass will work, since it makes it harder to vibrate the wall, but you need a LOT of mass to be effective. I think you need to look at the numbers: The wall at present (assuming that there really is insulation inside) has an STC rating of about 42. (If there is no insulation, then it would be only around 38.) If you add one extra layer of gypsum board, it will go up from 42 to maybe 46, with luck. Two extra layers will make it maybe 49. But now the physics starts to get scary: if you want to get from 49 to 54, then you now need to add ANOTHER THREE layers (for a total of six layers). To get from 54 to 61, you need to add ANOTHER SIX layers (total of 12 layers). (And to get from 61 to 66, you would need another TWELVE layers, for a total of 24 layers of gypsum board!!) Those 12 layers will give you roughly the same isolation as if you build a simple decoupled double wall, with Green Glue and insulation, as has been suggested here. By that I mean that 12 layers of gypsum board will give you roughly the same amount of isolation as if you take off the inside layer of that existing wall, use it to beef up the other layer (so that you have two or even three layers on the "outside" of that wall now) and build another wall about 6 inches away, also with two layers of gypsum board sandwiching a layer of Green Glue, then fill the entire gap in between the two leaves with insulation. So, sure, if you really want to install 12 layers of gypsum board on your wall (assuming that the studs can handle the huge strain, and that you can find screws long enough and tough enough to attache it all!!), then that would work, and would give you about the same isolation as the kind of wall we are suggesting: two layers of gypsum board on the outsides of a double-stud wall filled with mineral wool or fiberglass insulation. The numbers don't lie. Those are just rough theoretical numbers, of course, but the truth is in there. So, you can add a dozen layers of gypsum board. Or you can build a proper isolation wall. - Stuart -so when i understad it right, the better (not best) solution is just adding mass to the second leaf. what i can do easyly, is to glue 2 additional layers of gypsum to the existing wall.

