Hey guys - thanks for all your input on this! Here is an update on what I have been doing.
I did my research (mostly reading on this site) and setup my monitors where They should go (I think

. I dont really have enough room to soffit mount my 824's Really wish I did, and if anyone can think of a way to do it, I would appreciate the info.
I went out on a mission to find some insulation (OC703 or Rockwool), What I found was that the 703 was an unholy price, It had to be shipped by the truckload - *Truckload!* - to the dealer, who was SPI in this case. They still wanted $1.79 a sqft. WOW! Then I found Roxul AFB that was half the driving distance for $0.40 a sqft. So. I went down and got 5 bags of that stuff.
So now Im loaded with absorbative material, and I spent all weekend placing stuff in diffrent locations, corners, walls, floor, sides etc... I made a 2'x4' resonator with 1/8" preforated pegboard. We did the calculations and it should be tuned somewhere around 135 or so. It actually worked on 40-50hz range.
Placing all the Roxul in the room got my -27db 85Hz problem to about a -14db. Is this "good enough" ? I still see that big dip in my response chart in everything I listen too. Ive come to hate it! =) Anyway, After about 12 hours or working on this Saturday, I started moving the mic around to diffrent areas in the room, I found that If I moved the mic up 2' and forward a foot, The room looked really really good! Played some well mixed music, stuffed my head in there and man it sounds great! but... that kinda blew all the science out the door. Why place my monitors at ear level, and at an equalateral triangle then? I just moved mix position and it sounds better, and the response chart says so too... Whats up with that?
So I went back and looked at modes again, I dident think I could calculate this correctly because of the non-paralell shape of the room. So I did the calculation off the *outside* structure. Check this link:
http://www.mantisrecording.com/crmode.html
Here is my conclusion after the weekend:
I should build out the room with corner and slat absorbers just like John says to do, re-test room.....
OR
Attempt to build some tuned resonators targeting my 85hz problems into the corner traps, or build some small preforated Helmholtz boxes. We may even experiment with tuned tube traps made from the concrete form stuff....
What do you guys think?
Thanks alot guys!!
-Abe