I'll try to answer your questions, but I'm not really an expert, just a guy who reads this stuff a lot and has formulated some ideas that seem to jive with what I see being recommended by those who do know what they are doing.
1. The double walls between the control room and the live room are to provide an air gap to improve isolation between the 2 rooms. My thought was to use 2 sets of sliding glass doors with the angled walls to break things up a bit. The problem with having only one wall is the transmission of sound that gets coupled through a single wall. You might want to go over the the Studio Construction part of this forum (this is the Studio Design) and read the stickies. I think Knightfly has covered a lot of these details and the rationale behind them there. You could get by with a single wall for a bit of cost savings as long as your son decides up front that all monitoring in the control room while tracking will be done with headphones instead of monitor speakers.
2. The easy question!! The 3-section rectangular thingy in the control room is an equipment rack. I drew it in to see how it would work out. Rack gear is one of those things that has to be accounted for because you will accumulate stuff over time that needs a place to go. It could also be a stand for a keyboard, etc.
3. I would cut the 2 ft off the left side of the live room.
4. You could make the vocal booth smaller, as well, but be sure you at least chalk out a space and stand inside it along with a mic stand and a music stand to be sure there is enough space.
5. The non-parallel walls are important everywhere, but the control room needs to be symmetrical. In the live room it is easier to use acoustic treatment to break up the parallelism, which is why you see a lot of designs with parallel walls in the live rooms. The basic idea is to try to minimize the direct reflections between any 2 surfaces (ie. a straight line that will bounce back straight; this causes a null in the sound at the point where the 2 signals meet (direct and reflected). By having non-parallel walls, the way the sound bounces off opposite walls becomes a complex angle rather than a straight angle, so it is less likely that a null will occur. Acoustic treatments can accomplish the same thing. If you read through the SAE stuff you can get an idea of the various ways this can be accomplished.
6. Speaking of acoustic treatment.....As far as the control room goes, the treatments suggested by Ethan Winer's design (except the rear wall diffuser) should be about right, I think. The basic layout is close. I used angled sections in the front to install bass traps and to soffit mount the speakers, and the angled sections on the rear wall are for bass traps. I haven't figured out exactly what to use on the back wall. I think the room is small enough that diffusors will be ineffective (whereas Ethan's room is long enough to probably benefit from it; there's a whole lot of science in diffusion that is over my head). I have seen John Sayers recommend slot resonators back there, I think (again, read the stuff on the SAE site which John wrote). The basic materials required are not that expensive. Again, I think that Knightfly has covered a lot of this in his stickies as well as sources to obtain that materials. The basic materials are wood, rockwool, and rigid fiberglass insulation (with cloth to cover it all). The latter 2 go by different names depending on the manufacturer (Owens-Corning 703 is the common reference for rigid fiberglass, for instance).
As far as treatment for the live room and vocal booth go, here is my 2 cents worth. The live room I would probably install some side wall absorbers (
http://www.johnlsayers.com/HR/index1.htm) along with some mid/high absorption (using sheets of rigid fiberglass behind cloth) in some fashion. Again, I haven't gotten that far with my design to find out what exactly would be required. Hopefully someone else here with more knowledge than me could give you some pointers on that. Overall, though, it shouldn't be that expensive (or extensive).
The vocal booth, also, is TBD. If it had parallel walls, the conventional wisdom would be to make it as dead as possible by lining it with absorption. With the non-parallel walls I've drawn up, I think you can do less acoustic treatment to give it a little bit of vibe. Again, I'm not an expert but just opinionated!!
Hopefully I haven't damaged your opinions too much. I think the basic concepts I have are solid but just need to be fine tuned for actual construction.
Good luck,
Darryl.....