Hey Koggs; I've not been on here for a few years, but hopefully I can remember enough to help
First off, several of your questions could be answered here
http://www.johnlsayers.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=4310
Not trying to be mean, I just fully understand what mods go thru trying to answer the same questions several times a day - one of the reasons I left is because doing just that left me ZERO time for any personal projects. That's why I STARTED the reference section in the first place; and it helped, but there were STILL too many people wanting to be "spoon-fed" for free...
Now that the "snarky" part is over, you asked about
"using plasterboard of differing thickness and density (on the same side)with green glue between them?"
Assuming two different thicknesses of plasterboard are of the same brand, etc, they should automatically be different in density - if they are touching but NOT glued (green or otherwise) then each layer would have a slightly different RESONANT FREQUENCY, which is partially dependent on the plasterboard and partially on the frame characteristics - lightweight steel studs, for example, will be more flexible than wood, and therefore de-couple the leaves from each other a bit more (this = BETTER) - because the funtion of a wall is to BLOCK sound, more mass and LESS coupling will both make it harder for sound to get through.
I've still not messed with Green Glue, may or may not in this lifetime; so take this as a "SWAG" - aka Scientific Wild-Assed Guess :=) People tend to use less than a continuous coat of GG because of the cost, so that MIGHT have a different result than a COMPLETE coat between layers of plasterboard - the partial connections should leave each layer of the leaf a little more "autonomous", as in, more likely to keep some of their OWN resonant frequency; I would think this is a GOOD thing, because you'd still get the elasomeric decoupling between layers, and MAYBE a bit more effect from two DIFFERING resonances which would BROADEN the resonance area -
Any time you can have DIFFERENT resonances in components of a wall system, you SHOULD - if ANY of the components of a mass-air-mass (aka mass-spring-mass) system have the SAME resonance, that's the frequency that's gonna come right through. One example of this is (WITHOUT the help of elastomers) is doing ONE side of a 2-leaf wall with TWO layers of 5/8" plasterboard, and the OTHER leaf with THREE layers of 1/2" plasterboard (or 2 layers of MDF) - Nearly ANYTHING with a different mass.
This ensures that no SINGLE frequency gets a free pass - THAT flaw is one that'll get noticed quicker than almost ANYTHING, because it's so OBVIOUS a disturbance.
Another thing that's maybe NOT so obvious (til it bites you in the ass) is making sure you don't inadvertently COUPLE 2 frames of a double-framed wall for some reason - I remember reading an experiment several years ago, they started with a 2-leaf solid concrete wall - IIRC, the individual leaves were 4" and 6" thick, maybe 12" apart; and their ONLY connection to each other was the earth - the wall was tested, and obviously tested REALLY good - I don't remember the actual TL values, but basically drums and/or screaming vocals couldn't be heard on the other side -
Then, they core-drilled the inner wall, big enough to push a wooden dowel thru the inner wall and tight against the outer wall, and epoxied the inside in place - the re-test allowed NORMAL CONVERSATION to be heard on the other side. (Obviously the dowel was drilled out after the test :=)
I've been studying acoustics/sound control off and on for nearly 40 years and couldn't tell you where I read that, so please don't ask for a link - my point is just that in acoustics and sound proofing, there is NO SUCH THING AS TOO MUCH ATTENTION TO DETAIL (or too much study)
Anyway, my intent was NOT to hurt feelings - only that there's a LOT of useful info ALREADY written here, and the more of it you read the less likely you'll be unhappy with your build... Steve