i see that you limited the height to 11' 2" 5/8 from the available 20 feet. what would you do with the extra space? leave it empty?
I couldn't find a good ratio with the ceiling any higher than that, and for a control room eleven feet is pretty good anyway. You could maybe go a bit higher, then hang a large, angled hard-backed cloud over the front of the room, to deal with the modal issues to a certain extent.
What would I use the additional space upstairs for? HVAC!

You have more than plenty of room to get all your HVAC up there, so it will not take up any space at all inside the room. You'll have about six feet of clear space up there, maybe more, and I doubt you'd need more than about three or so for the HVAC, so you might also be able to fit in some storage up there, accessible up a ladder, or something like that.
would you fully close the room with Sheetrock first and THEN treat with absorption on the inside? or would open studs/insulation with fabric finish work? (brick > stud > insulation> fabric) (fake walls)
Fake walls aren't walls at all, for sound waves! Sound waves don't care what the walls
look like: all they care about is mass and rigidity. Insulation and fabric have none of either, so sound waves wont even "see" them at all. But drywall has plenty of both, and sound waves will be impressed by that!
So the boundary of the room at those dimensions, is the surface of the drywall facing the room interior. That's what we are concerned about, for modal calculations. That's the actual acoustic boundary of the room.
Once the room is built to that stage (complete inner-leaf boundary in place and sealed), then you can run a simple acoustic test on it using the REW software, to see how it performs in its worst possible state, and use the results to determine what treatment is needed. Yes, it is possible to predict a lot of that in advance, and you could actually install all of your bass trapping and first reflection point absorption before testing... but then you'd have nothing to compare it against! Also, prediction is one thing, but reality is another.... There's no such things as perfect building materials, you can't build perfectly straight, perfectly homogenous walls, and slight variations can cause large deviations from prediction. So it's best to do a "baseline" test with just the shell in place (inner-leaf walls and ceiling, doors, windows, soffits, desk, etc.), but no treatment at all, then install the basic treatment, and do another test. That way you can see how your empty room really reacts in real life, as opposed to what was predicted, and then you can see the effects of the treatment you installed, and see what you still need to do with the next round of treatment. If you do that at each stage of your treatment, you can see what is working, what isn't, and how much further you have to go to get within spec.
- Stuart -