Also I have no measuring mic, but buying one seems to be too expensive. [for something that one uses a few times and then will stay catching dust; also a EMC8000 as other B products probably sucks balls and creates noise
They cost less than a hundred bucks, if you shop around carefully, or maybe a bit more, and they make great ambient mikes for use in your studio after it is built, as well as for other purposes. You'll use it way more than "just a few times" during the studio build and tuning. The ECM8000 isn't too bad, actually. I have one, and also a PreSonus, which is a bit more expensive. They perform about the same.
I am reading about speaker positioning. The nicest one seems to be the Cardas style

Careful with that... take a look around, and see how many pro studios actually use that, or anything even remotely similar.... There's a reason for that... !

Perhaps it might be related to the listening position usually ending up at the exact center of the room, which is the worst possible location for modal issues...

You might also want to google "what is a trapagon" to find out that the "geometric shape" that he recommends for rooms, does not actually exist... the only references to this "trapagon" shape, are on his own web site, or other places that talk about it, but nobody can seem to find the math to figure it out, or back it up...
his golden trapagon sized room. I will probably will need some help on this one.
The best help I can give you there is to forget all about mythical magical shapes that don't actually exist, and rather use one of the known good ratios, which are fully understood mathematically, have been fully tested in numerous real-world builds, ad absolutely do work. Just make sure that your room ratio is within the Bolt area, and close to one of Sepmeyer's or Louden's ratios. Also make sure that your speakers are NOT set up so that your head is in the geometric center of the room, since that is the exact point where ALL modal peaks are at their maximum, and all modal nulls are at their minimum. There is no worse location in a room, except for the tricorners.
in a LEDE style room,
LEDE is a very old studio design concept from the 70's, that has long since been abandoned by serious studio designers, in favor of extensions such as RFZ, CID, and NER. LEDE proved to be very uncomfortable to work in for long periods, since it is not a naturally occurring situation. Our brains are not used to it, and don't like it much. RFZ is a much better design concept: retains the good points of LEDE while fixing the bad points, and generally being much more pleasant and more accurate to work in.
is not intended to be a mixing room. It is a [future] rehearsal room and audition room, and occasional recording room,
Then why are you worried about ratios, speaker placement, and room design concepts?

If it is basically a live room, then none of that is important at all! That stuff only applies to control rooms.
The mixes I will do in monitor head sets,
Then why are you looking at speaker placement? If you wont be mixing on speakers, then why bother?
1. Bass traps in corners are compulsory, and are never good nor big enough.
In general, yes.
2. Diffusers are also ad libitum on the ceiling, which helps a lot, preferably above the listening position, the rear wall and also combined with absorption on the first reflection area.
If the room is large enough, then yes. But yours probably isn't. Your ears need to be at least 10 feet away from any numeric-based diffuser, and even further if it is tuned low: at least three full wavelengths of the note one octave below the low cutoff frequency of the diffuser. Any closer than that, and you'll be in the zone of lobing artifacts. The lobing occurs in frequency, direction, phase and intensity for at least those distances. Diffusers should only be used in rooms that are big enough for that.
3. Under 15% of surface treatment is probably not enough to be noticed.
It is not possible to specify the percentage of surface area that a room needs, since rooms come in different sizes: small rooms need a much larger percentage of their walls and ceiling covered with treatment, while large rooms need less. The only way to know for sure how much a room needs, is to calculate it it using Sabine's equations, or the more modern updated versions of those same equations. It is not uncommon to have more than 50% of the walls covered with some type of treatment, and some studios have close to 100% coverage: !5% is very low. What are the dimensions of your room? With that, I can calculate roughly what percentage you need. Is it still 11m x 10.5m by 7m, or did that change? If it is still that size, then it needs 2788 sabins of absorption to bring it within usable acoustics. That implies about 260 m2 of perfect absorption. The total surface area of your room is about 528 m2, so you need about 49% covrage. You can't cover the floor, obviously, so that leaves 413 m2 of wall plus ceiling area: You'll need to cover about 63% of that to get decent acoustics. 15% would basically do nothing at all useful.
4. Too much absorption sucks, and it is a risk of overdoing bass traps which not only absorb bass but absorbs also high and mid, and absorb even better than bass, so one risks to accentuate the bass issue.
Right: Dead rooms sound lousy, but you still cannot skimp on bass trapping. Rather, you install as much bass trapping as is needed, then you treat the front of the bass traps accordingly to keep the mids and highs in the room. The goal is flat decay times across the spectrum, such that no single octave varies vary much from its neighbors. Here's the graph for a control room that I've just finished tuning, that shows how it should be:
d9-rt60-single.jpg
That shows the decay time in each octave band. As you can see, it is smooth across the board. And that room has huge amounts of bass trapping in it! There are vertical and horizontal superchunks, membrane traps, perf panel, slot walls, and the entire ceiling is about 3 feet deep in bass trapping, plus a large cloud hung below that. Yet as you can see the mids and highs are all still there. A well balanced room.
So, here are the measurements. I have serious doubts that these are ok.
It's impossible to say from just those graphs. I'd have to see the actual MDAT file, to analyze it fully. However, what can be seen from your room is that it has major, big, huge problems on the lows, between about 50 Hz and 200 Hz, which is very normal for a room that size. That can be fixed with bass traps. All your treatment has done so far is to kill the high-mids and highs. The problems in the lows are almost unaltered, with only small changes. Here is what that graphs should look like, for the range 15 Hz to 500 Hz.:
d9-spectro-15-500.jpg
That shows smooth, clean, even bass response in the spectrogram, and here it is in the waterfall:
d9-waterfall-15-500.jpg
Compare your graphs to what it should be, and you'll see the major issues that need fixing in yours.
In fact all this fuss about excluding your room out of the music is rather utterly overstated.
I agree! A control room should be neutral, not dead. It should do nothing to the music, neither take anything away nor add anything to it. Live rooms, on the other hand, should have character, and should sound good.
So my feel is that diffusion is way more useful than absorption
Actually, the opposite is true. As I mentioned above, diffusion can only be used in rooms that are big enough. Your isn't. First comes enough absorption to control the low end, then comes enough reflection/diffusion to get the mids and highs back into the room again.
and I already feel that it is enough absorption with 9% of the surface covered
Not even close to enough. See above: to bring it within spec, that room needs about 49% of the total room area covered, or about 63% of the walls and ceiling.
[by the basstraps - which absorb way more midrange and high than bass anyway]
Then they aren't built right! They are too small, not deep enough, or made with the wrong materials, and there are not enough of them. If they are sucking out too much of the mids and highs, then they need to be partially covered with membranes of some type, where the thickness and coverage ratio can be calculated, based on the results seen in the REW data.
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