Sorry for the delay in response to your question.
While it may look like it is connected in the photo the trick is to keep them isolated from one another. I'm assuming your book has arrived now so you should be able to see the detailed diagram in there but do let us know if it's still not clear.Doesn't that connect the two walls though, thus defeating the purpose of having space between the two walls?
I'll take a crack at your other questions too and I'm sure Stuart will chime in if further clarification is needed.
a) adding beef up definitely will not hurt. It will definitely help with impact noise from the above space and by doing this you are increasing the mass of the other side of your MSM layer which will increase your overall isolation. Don't forget to seal every hole in every joist bay too - you will be going through a lot of acoustical caulk and backer rod!a) Do you think it would be better to add a layer or two of gyproc between #2 and #3?
b) Also, is pink fibreglass fine instead of Safe n' Sound rock wool for the ceiling?
c) Would it make sense to replace the last layer of ⅝" gyproc (#9) by a ½" Gyproc?
b) I used it in my last build and it worked just fine. I recall others recommending it was perfectly fine not to mention significantly cheaper. Just be sure not to have it so thick that it ends up connected your two leafs together - you want to make sure it remains the Spring in your MSM.
c) I wouldn't. Having the extra mass of the 5/8" will help with the lower frequencies which are the ones that are always harder to contain.
Cheers!
Andy.